“Just So You Know, We’re Using Your House for Christmas,” My Daughter-in-Law Texted — She Never Asked

Her mom criticized the turkey, her sister doesn’t like the mattress she got, the kids are bored. And people keep asking, ‘Why aren’t we doing this at your mom’s place? She has more room, right?’”

I pictured it easily: the tangle of bodies and expectations, the way even a large house can feel too small when no one respects boundaries.

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