At My Brother’s Housewarming, I Did The Work—But Wasn’t Invited To Brunch

people pretend,” I continued. “If I’m present, I’m acknowledged. Not as a shadow. Not as a punchline. If someone makes a joke at my expense, you shut it down immediately. Even if it’s uncomfortable.”

Liam nodded rapidly. “Okay.”

“And if you want any kind of relationship,” I said, “you do the work. Therapy. Real work. Not one coffee apology.”

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