After Ten Years of Marriage I Asked for a Fair Split Because It Still Matters

either — not entirely. He was a man who had made a series of calculated decisions and had discovered that the person he had underestimated was not, in fact, less capable than he had assumed.

That is not a generous conclusion. But it is an honest one, and I have found, in the time since my marriage ended, that honesty is the quality I value most. More continue reading …