After Setting a Boundary With My Family, I Learned Something Important at the Bank

of her relationship to me from father to resource — I was valuing these things at face, without asking whether the face was still accurate.

The Tuesday evening in the living room was when I finally marked the account to market.

What I found, when I did, was that I had been overextended for some time. Not financially — financially, my books were meticulous.continue reading …