My Date Picked Up the Tab—Then Sent an “Invoice”: A Modern Dating Red Flag You Shouldn’t Ignore

I’ve been on enough first dates to know that a polished start doesn’t guarantee a happy ending. Still, when my friend Mia urged me to meet a colleague of her boyfriend’s, I decided to give it a try. She sang his praises: polite, smart, dependable—the kind of “gentleman” that, in theory, makes modern dating feel hopeful again. Given her confidence, continue reading …